Relationship questions encompass a variety of subjects, often dealing with trust and unresolved issues.

Sometimes, the problem is physical infidelity, while other times it revolves around financial difficulties. In certain instances, communication allegations such as 'sexting' or one partner's questionable past are the main concerns.

A polygraph test can be an effective tool for addressing a broad range of relationship topics (polygraph tests are also often commonly referred to as "lie detector" tests....)

The effectiveness of a polygraph test relies heavily on the questions posed and the experience of the Polygraph Examiner. It is critical to look into the credentials of any potential polygraph examiner. Make sure that you talk to them on the phone or in person - ask questions and figure out if they are a good fit for your situation. If they are 'too busy' or unwilling to talk to you before you give them a deposit, keep looking. Trust your gut feeling, it is probably accurate. At Focused Polygraph in Bethesda, Maryland, we have the professional experience and training to help you resolve issues and we talk to all clients before accepting any deposits.

As one of our clients told me last summer: "Despite my gut feeling, I went with the first hit on Google search and picked another company for the polygraph because they all seemed the same - they one we picked was also the cheapest and I did not check the company's qualifications - after the test, my wife and I felt like the whole thing was hurried, inaccurate, and a waste of time and money. Now I'm back looking for another Polygraph Examiner because you get what you pay for."

This blog post examines common questions asked during fidelity polygraph tests and considers additional polygraph questions that might be considered involving related topics.

Understanding Polygraph Testing

Before delving into specific questions, it’s important to grasp the fundamentals of polygraph testing. A polygraph measures physiological responses—such as heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing rates in response to questions.

Questions should be clear, direct, and relevant. Vague or overly complicated questions can lead to inconclusive results, so keeping them straightforward is essential. The examinee should have a crystal clear understanding of any terms in the question. Polygraph examinations usually last 90 minutes to three hours.

Generally, polygraph tests do not address intent, feelings, or emotions. The most effective polygraph exams cover very specific, limited issues with short, direct questions. Usually some kind of action will be part of the question (i.e. Did you shoot that man? Did you have sexual contact with anyone other than your wife? Did you deliberately falsify any information in that trust document?)

Types of Questions to Consider

1. Direct Questions About Infidelity

In our experience, the most commonly requested fidelity polygraph tests involve direct questions about physical sexual contact. These questions should be clear-cut and well defined, leaving no room for misinterpretation. Some examples include:

Since you were married, have you had sexual contact with anyone other than your husband?
In the last five years, have you had sexual intercourse with (name)

2. Questions About Fidelity Related Behavioral Patterns and Communications

Understanding behavioral patterns can also provide insight into fidelity issues:

Since you were engaged, Have you had any contact with someone you dated before?
In the past two years, have you placed your profile on a dating web site?

3. Questions Related to the Past

Before making a commitment, people often have nagging feelings that they want addressed:

Prior to 2023, Have you ever been engaged to anyone?
Before this year, have you ever been arrested for anything?

4. Financial Issues, Adverse History, and other topics

Finances often can cause stress in a relationship:

Since January of this year, have you given any money to your sister?
Right now do you have any investments that you are concealing from your wife?
Did you take any of that money from the safe deposit box?

Conclusion

The polygraph can serve as an effective tool for clarifying uncertainties in a relationship. It may be used to address issues like physical infidelity, suspicious communications, past problems, financial concerns, and other activities through carefully designed questions, a detailed process, and a skilled Polygraph Examiner.

If this issue is significant to you, be ready to hire a professional. Make sure they are certified and possess valid qualifications—refer to our blog post on accreditation for a quick read on this.....

Our Polygraph Examiner brings decades of investigative experience, stays updated with all continuing education, and is an current member of both the American Polygraph Association and the Maryland Polygraph Association. He graduated from the world's leading Polygraph School and has successfully resolved complex cases worldwide. Contact us to discuss your situation—we do not accept any payment until we have spoken with potential clients and explained how a polygraph examination could help address their concerns. There is no obligation or charge for our initial consultation.

What are the Best Questions to Ask in a Maryland Fidelity or Relationship Polygraph Test? Samples below.....